Looking for Love?

I was playing on the beach with my beautiful daughter Violet yesterday and learned an important lesson.

She asked if I wanted to play hide and seek, and I said it would be tough to do . . . There was really nowhere good to hide on the wide open beach!

Then she suggested that we hide shells . . .

Suddenly the whole game changed. It went from being hard to hide to hard to find!

How was I going to locate a specific shell on a beach among hundreds of thousands of others shells . . .

Know Where to Look

Thankfully, we quickly evolved the idea to hiding a shell in a small area of the sand.

Now it felt like this was a game that I could actually play!

We drew a heart in the sand and took turns burying shells for each other to find.

What fun!

The simple shift of focus to a small target area made all the difference.

Trying to find a tiny object in a huge area feels pretty discouraging.

But as soon as you know where you need to look for your shell (or Love!) you’ve got a real shot at quick success.

So if you’re looking for Love, ask yourself where it makes sense to look for it . . .

All the Right Places

Now, please be open-minded, here. I’m going to share some ideas about looking for Love that may surprise you.

First and foremost, I want you to look within. Are you Loving yourself as you so rightly deserve?

This is your most powerful point of attraction. And what could possibly be better than being a living magnet that draws what you desire right to you???

It’s known that what you want wants you, so make sure that you’re open to being found! Your partner/customers/opportunity are looking for Love too . . . They’re looking for you!

Next, think about what you’re doing every day. Where are you going? Who are you spending your time with?

Since like attracts like, you want to surround yourself with people who possess the qualities that you’re looking for in a partner (Be it romantic or business!).

Think about the kind of person or people you want to meet. Where do you think they spend their time? What activities are they involved in?

Put yourself in “target rich” environments as often as possible!

And remember to make good use of your network. Everyone you know has friends that you haven’t met yet.

Go ahead and put it out there that you’re looking for Love. Perhaps your friend knows someone else who’s looking too . . .

Be open to finding Love where you least expect it. Love may not come in the size and shape that you imagined, but when you find it, you’ll know!